When getting engaged, an anxious bride once asked whether she should be should be treated to a brand new engagement ring, an antique engagement ring or a ’second hand’ engagement ring.

Clearly, the attraction of a new engagement ring is second to none. The ring will be to your taste and your size and you’ll be the first and maybe only person to own your ring. What’s more, you can have the fun of choosing your ring together, unless he’s surprised you and picked the perfect ring himself. If you’re still looking for a wedding ring or engagement ring, you may find your dream ring at Rings.org.uk. With over 10,000 to choose from Rings.org.uk has rings to suit every taste and every occasion.

On the other hand, an antique ring passed down through his family will have stories to tell and may be a family heirloom. Older rings may be more valuable or contain larger and more lustrous gems. They may be set in a higher quality gold or silver, however will probably need adjusting to fit your finger.

Second hand engagement rings are another story. Has he proposed to someone else with the ring he’s about to give to you? Is she still on the scene, hoping he’ll propose again? Unless you’re very close or the engagement ring she had is your dream ring, ask if he will give you the same special treatment and pick a ring that you can enjoy together.

Don’t be an anxious bride, be sure of the ring you want to show your love and your relationship. Choose an engagement ring that is comfortable to wear, perhaps a diamond engagement ring or a ring with a ruby, sapphire, emerald or gemstone of your choice.